We talked about visual value and behavioral value and how they affect a girl. If you have managed to make improvements on both of them, then you should be popular already among girls and finding tinder for hookups shouldn’t be a problem for you now. Today, we are going for a deeper characteristic that will make a girl loyal to you. Maybe this is more suitable for guys who are into serious relationships that could lead to marriage, but having one more favorable trait is always good even if you only want some friends with benefits fun.
The third trait and the most vital trait in a person, that is social value. If having the first two values is enough to get a one night stand, then having the social value can make a girl go after you in reverse.
To make it easier for you to understand, here is an example of a dinner date for tinder hookup.
You and a girl are in a restaurant, the service staff enthusiastically said hello and the manager come over in person to serve, as if you are a regular customer of them. It's one of those social values that shows your social level in your environment. People with a certain social value are proven to be "tested" people.
As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together. The friends around you and the people you contact with can also reflect your social value to some extent. In other words, if your friends like to read and learn, you're likely to be a learner, too. But if your friends like to go to bars, night clubs, or your friends are rude and impolite, then there is huge chance that you are this kind of person as well.
According to these, a girl would assume that since you like to go to bars, night clubs or some places, you wouldn’t treat her with sincerity. If you are rude and impolite, she will be treated with rudeness as well. Thus, she will instinctively draw a line between you and not consider the possibility of you two being together. Of course, if she only wants to hook up, then none of these matters. After all, it’s only a casual relationship that might last one night or several more.
To sum up, the girl you like will want to know you your visual value, and will decide whether or not to date you based on your behavioral value. Social value is more like icing on the cake, and without the first two values as a basis, you won't have the opportunity to show her your high social value.